Just to share on a recent experience.
Dewi and I went to an invite recently. Before going, I have already cautioned Dewi that this could be another investment thingy. So we went with our cup half filled.
Glad we met familiar faces that served as an ice breaker and cut through the awkward moments.
Halfway to the talk, my attention waned. I felt disappointed and kept peering at Dewi to see her reactions…well she made the ‘oops you are right all along’ face..
I was not disappointed with what was being offered. It was legit and legal and not a scam. Of course. For now.
It was the way that it was presented. Same old same old. The sentence used ‘to help the community’ was repeated. It was somehow like a noble and thoughtful action but unfortunately reality bites. Who is helping who?
Also, what irked me further was that why the invitee did not state the reason and purpose. I took it as seriously misleading into thinking that there was actually in fact something that we can contribute base on our area of expertise. But none of that. In fact it was not even close to that. I felt cheated. My perception changed.
Again I stressed, it was not what was being offered but how it was being offered. What was being offered was quite common. Something that time and again will surfaced. Just different product different promises but same approach and same sale tactic and same sale pitch.
A couple of days ago, I was informed, a family member was poached. I gave my mind. I said I was skeptical and had spent a few days googling and researching on this. I weighed the bad information against the good information. The scale holding the bad information tilted down so go figure. Logic and sense would have you know that this was the same old scheme just presenting different product and different promises.
Drummed into the subconscious mind was the need to work hard to achieve the ultimate dream. Well, I believe in that too just that I treasure kinship and friendship dearer. So, I rather earn my bucks the old fashioned way. Call me a fool. I am proud of my work and talent. Using my two hands and providing something that is real. And no way am I going to that road where making new friends is no longer sincere but rather with a hidden agenda. Last words, I am no hypocrite.
Luv
Noor
























